TeamPartyKit

White elephant gift swap with dice – the rules

Updated: 2026-10-19

The dice version of the gift swap is faster and fairer than ‘steal’ rules: there is no awkward choosing, luck decides, and you can stop the game at any minute with a timer.

Everyone brings one wrapped gift within a set budget. Gifts go into the middle. Then the dice start rolling.

What each number means

⚀ 1Take a gift from the middle. If the middle is empty, swap with anyone.
⚁ 2Pass the gift you hold to the left.
⚂ 3Pass the gift you hold to the right.
⚃ 4Swap your gift with any player you choose.
⚄ 5Everyone passes their gift one seat to the left.
⚅ 6Take one gift from any player – and roll again.

How the game runs

  1. Round 1 (until the middle is empty): only rule 1 counts; roll until you get a 1 or a 6.
  2. Round 2 (hidden timer, 10–15 min): all six rules apply.
  3. When the timer rings, everyone keeps the gift they hold and opens it at the same time.
  4. Variation for big groups: play in several circles of 8–12 people.

The games

1. Dice gift swap (white elephant with dice)

Everyone brings a small wrapped gift (set a budget, e.g. 10 €). Players roll a die in turns: each number triggers an action (take a gift, swap, pass left). When the timer ends, you keep what you hold. Full rules below in our guide.

  • Players: 6–30
  • Time: 20–40 min
  • Materials: 1–2 dice, timer, gifts

2. Thank-you card swap

Everyone draws a colleague’s name and writes two specific sentences of thanks for something that happened this year. Cards are handed out (or read anonymously). Quiet, warm and memorable.

  • Players: 4–60
  • Time: 10–15 min
  • Materials: Cards, pens (or a shared board online)

Host tips

  • Set the budget in the invitation (10–15 € is common) and say ‘funny or useful, nothing offensive’.
  • Use a hidden timer (phone face down) so nobody knows when the game ends.
  • Have one or two spare gifts for people who forgot.
  • Gifts are opened at the very end, all at once – the best moment of the game.

FAQ

What is the difference between white elephant and Secret Santa?

Secret Santa: each person buys for one assigned colleague. White elephant/dice swap: everyone brings an anonymous gift and gifts move around by game rules.

How long should the game run?

15–25 minutes for 10–20 people. Longer gets repetitive.

More party guides